Here's an interesting chat I had with Bob the other day:
Jeffypoo-988-8658 says:
check this out.. I changed my pic from just the one of me with my hat to both of those..
Jeffypoo-988-8658 says:
my rating's now the lowest it's ever been, which is fine.. whatever. I changed it cuz I got bored.. but now it seems the number of women who are willing to meet me are noticeably hotter (by society's standards).
Jeffypoo-988-8658 says:
not only are hotter women willing to meet me, but several of them actually click me first! which never happened before, in the month or so when I had the star membership. very odd.
Bob is happy. says:
teehee
Jeffypoo-988-8658 says:
http://meetme.hotornot.com/r/?emid=K8GURZR
for example, this one wanted to meet me first.. never happened before I had the eatme pic up there.. even though almost every woman I ask says I look better in the other pic.
Bob is happy. says:
hmmm...and your avg rtg is 7.7...not bad!
Jeffypoo-988-8658 says:
yes.. but considerably lower than the 8.8 or 8.9 I had before.. not that I care. if someone takes the right kind of pic, they can get a super high rating, no matter what they look like.. or a really low rating if they take a crummy pic.
Bob is happy. says:
yep.
Bob is happy. says:
technique has something to do with it, at least.
Jeffypoo-988-8658 says:
ya, totally. and no matter what you look like, you can do something to play up your best features.. like the chicks on rmb who only have pics of their tits or ass.
Jeffypoo-988-8658 says:
or, like me, you can do something interesting and creative in your pic. people love that.
Bob is happy. says:
for your next pic, I dare ya to stick your tongue out.
Jeffypoo-988-8658 says:
hmm.. I dunna think so sorry. I might get the wrong kind of attention.
Bob is happy. says:
or the right kind
Bob is happy. says:
you know, it's pretty sad that we live in the same house and this is how we end up talking.
Jeffypoo-988-8658 says:
pffft. ya think so.. btw, do you ever go to RMB? I'm not sure what you'd think of it.. that site is just silly with thongs and g-strings..
Bob is happy. says:
well, is it a mixed orientations site, or het?
Jeffypoo-988-8658 says:
ya, you bet. they've even got an option for bi, which HoN doesn't have, and I notice that bothers a lot of people on there.
Bob is happy. says:
it does, actually. I think we chatted about this, but it's a lot harder for guys to be bi in our society than girls.
Jeffypoo-988-8658 says:
hmm.. I guess. harder for guys to be bi than gay, though? or just harder for guys to be bi than it is for girls?
Jeffypoo-988-8658 says:
for girls, I'd think being lez would make them more outcasts than if they were bi.. being bi would make them even more popular with a lot of guys
Bob is happy. says:
I think it's harder for guys to be bi as opposed to gay AND as compared to bi women.
Bob is happy. says:
and I agree. Case in point, you, Curtis, Jacen.
Jeffypoo-988-8658 says:
heh.. ya
Bob is happy. says:
which is kinda hypocritical I think, but.
Jeffypoo-988-8658 says:
actually, lesbians depress me. I mentioned that to jace, and he said, "why? cuz you think they're all going to go to hell?" yeesh.
Jeffypoo-988-8658 says:
well, you can be attracted to lots of things that you think are wrong..
Jeffypoo-988-8658 says:
but mebbe you can imagine why lesbians depress me.
Bob is happy. says:
because they're going to hell...or because they won't be attracted to you.
Bob is happy. says:
I suppose that's true, about being attracted to wrong, but the disgust level would be greater towards sexually-fluid men than women.
Bob is happy. says:
it's the same with most women. gay guys are cool, lesbians can take a flying leap
Jeffypoo-988-8658 says:
because they're not attracted to me, cuz they don't need me, but moreso, because of their attitude that they'd be better off if me and the rest of my kind just shrivelled up and died. if they said, well, I'm a lesbian, yet I value and appreciate the diversity that my friendships with straight men add to my life..
Jeffypoo-988-8658 says:
i don't understand "I suppose that's true, about being attracted to wrong, but the disgust level would be greater towards sexually-fluid men than women."
Bob is happy. says:
that's SUCH a stereotype, straight out of a Focus on the Family book.
Jeffypoo-988-8658 says:
ya think so? not at all, from what I've seen on HoN.
Jeffypoo-988-8658 says:
that's why it's been on my mind a bit, lately.
Bob is happy. says:
HoN is hardly a representative sample.
Jeffypoo-988-8658 says:
mebbe not.. but where else would you like me to go to expose myself to the lesbian lifestyle? somewhere where I wouldn't be run out of town..
Bob is happy. says:
read less biased materials.
Bob is happy. says:
libraries are good places for those

There was a whole bunch to the chat before that, and after, but I figured this was the bit that I thought would be most relevant and interesting to the masses. Enjoy!! By the way, I'm not really planning on posting a lot.. I'm not planning on not posting a lot, either.. just when I feel compelled to.